I'm with you on the Sarah Jane/Rose thing; I do. not. write. fic. anymore. (until my dissertation is done at least) and I'm having a very difficult time not letting my mind follow that whole "find me" thing.

One of the very first fics I ever wrote (it was in a zine and luckily is probably lost for all time) was Five coming back to find Sarah Jane and say goodbye properly. As I recall, she had a husband who looked like a handsomer version of Four. I was Very Young at the time. But I always assumed she would move on.