Like a lot of things that are great in fiction, it would be damn exhausting in real life.
That's certainly one of the appeals of all of this - you get to see all the things that might fictionally appeal but would horrify you in real life. In rl I like my men very sane, very grounded and with as few issues as possible. And P. is usually those things. (I say usually because he does become temporarily unstable during hockey playoffs.) But fictional men are entirely different. The more messed up the better for them! (As long as they look rather hot being that way, for I am exceedingly shallow).
Thanks for sharing about Mr. M and yourself. And I do agree that being with the right people at the right time can make a lot of difference.
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Date: 2007-06-16 02:14 am (UTC)That's certainly one of the appeals of all of this - you get to see all the things that might fictionally appeal but would horrify you in real life. In rl I like my men very sane, very grounded and with as few issues as possible. And P. is usually those things. (I say usually because he does become temporarily unstable during hockey playoffs.) But fictional men are entirely different. The more messed up the better for them! (As long as they look rather hot being that way, for I am exceedingly shallow).
Thanks for sharing about Mr. M and yourself. And I do agree that being with the right people at the right time can make a lot of difference.